A Passion to Serve: How Young People Get Hooked for Life

(Post by MARILYN PRICE-MITCHELL)

Scott, an admittedly shy student who grew up in North Carolina, began working for an anti-tobacco campaign in 9th grade.  Why? He wanted to gain skills that would benefit him down the line and start getting experiences that would look good on his college resume. But somewhere along the way, Scott found a passion to serve others. Now a national spokesperson for youth anti-tobacco use, he leads his own nonprofit at the age of 20.  Why do some young people get hooked on service for life while others see it as a passing civic requirement?

Raising children to become active citizens doesn’t happen by chance. In my research study, Civic Learning at the Edge: Transformative Stories of Highly Engaged Youth, I interviewed students from around the country who had adopted passionate causes between the ages of 14 and 18.  Developmentally, this is the age when kids form civic identities that often stay with them for the rest of their lives.

The students in my study reflected on their adolescence and the critical experiences that led them to work for civic causes.  While they each had different stories, their journeys shared five common stages.  Being familiar with the steps in their journeys can help parents and other adults support kids through these important learning experiences by listening, encouraging, and appreciating the process.

Five Steps toward Civic Passion

Connecting to Others in Need

Kids who develop a passion to serve can usually point to a critical volunteer experience that became transformative for them.  The experience always involves face-to-face interaction with people who are different from them and most often, with people who are in need. These experiences might occur in food banks, homeless shelters, nursing homes, disaster areas, and places where people live in poverty. Similarly, those who work for environmental causes point to intense moments of learning, involving a deep personal connection to nature or animals. Their experiences might occur in animal shelters, wildlife refuges, or experiential projects that raise awareness of environmental issues.

Confronting Moral Dilemmas

When teenagers form relationships with those who are in need, who may be in pain, or who may have few resources, it creates moral dilemmas for them.  They begin to ask questions that compare their own circumstances to others. For the first time, they may wonder why people are hungry or why children are homeless. The same is true for the environment.  Kids feel such a connection to nature that they begin to ask deep moral questions about how we care for the planet. Why don’t we pay attention to climate change?  Or protect certain species of animals?

Self-Reflection

As they consider these moral dilemmas, they reach deep within themselves and think about their values.  Instead of mimicking the opinions they have heard from others, such as parents or friends, they begin to form their own conclusions.  They need to process their feelings with adults who are not judgmental, who trust in their abilities to find their own answers. Often, these adults are leaders of volunteer programs, older siblings, or a favorite teacher. Encouraging children to discuss their feelings with others, or even write about them, helps facilitate learning.

Perspective Shift

Through reflection, talking with others, and linking their values to the issues that impact them, young people experience a shift in perspective. They begin to see how issues are connected to each another and become interested in understanding the root causes of societal problems.  For example, they may see links between social and environmental issues, understanding that climate change will most affect people living in poverty. They may connect sex trafficking with girls living in poverty in Cambodia.  They may understand the need for breast cancer research because it affected a mother or aunt. These connections begin to fuel an inner purpose and passion toward specific, important causes.

Creating a Passionate Civic Identity

Young people reach the last stage in this journey when they see themselves as active, engaged citizens. They are able to articulate their beliefs about how they understand a social or environmental issue and they hold a worldview that incorporates themselves as agents of change. They know that small things they do to contribute to social and environmental causes have a big impact. At this point, they are ready and able to make a long-term commitment to public service.  They are hooked for life!

Marilyn Price-Mitchell, PhD, Bainbridge Island, Washington, USA

Marilyn is a developmental psychologist, educator, researcher, and writer with a passion for learning how today’s youth grow into healthy, successful, and engaged adults.  She synthesizes multidisciplinary research in psychology, education, sociology, child & adolescent development, social psychology, and neurobiology to bring trusted, evidence-based research to parents, teachers, mentors, coaches, and all those who support kids. Visit her blog at Roots of Action; Twitter; Facebook.

©2011 Marilyn Price-Mitchell. May not be reprinted or adapted without permission.

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(12) Readers Comments

  1. A great article. I can see more clearly how this process works! Thanks!

  2. Thanks, Jane, for your comment. It is a fascinating process!

  3. Hi Marilyn,

    My professor sent me your link. I am currently a psychology major in a Youth at Risk class in Oak Harbor, Washington. It is so nice to see some of the positive aspects of youth, rather than the negaitive most of the time! I really appreciate your insight about service too. I have said continually that service is key to an adolescence healthy development. I think that today’s youth are very smart, and they honestly want to engage in important conversations with adults, and when they have a purpose, I think that they tend to become more resilient and fulfilled.

    Since you are in Washington, do you ever speak at any seminars? I know that there are a few of us that would love to consult with you for our class.

    Respectfully,
    Paula Bateman :-)

    • Paula,

      Sorry for the delay in responding to your comment here. I’m glad you found this article helpful. I agree that today’s youth want to engage in important conversations but are not often invited by adults to do so. Yes, I do occasionally speak at seminars in Washington State. Where are you in school? Please contact me through my website at http://www.mpricemitchell.com and tell me about your class. Thanks. Marilyn

  4. I’ve never read about this process before and I think it is so very true in my own experience. When I was a teen I got involved with public service and it was a bug that bit me for life. I can walk through these exact steps in my mind. How interesting that these steps are common for teens. Wish more young people could experience them! Very nice article!

    • Thanks, Kathy for your comment. Someone else mentioned the same thing to me today after reading my article — that it was the process they went through during the Civil Rights movement in the 60′s. Yes, we need to provide opportunities that give more teens these kinds of experiences. Thanks again! — Marilyn

  5. Wow. This is exactly what we are attempting to do with teens through a service program I work with. I am going to look at your research. Thanks for this article. Very informative and confirms our experience with youth.

    • Maureen,
      Thanks for your comment. It is helpful to know that these steps make sense to people like yourself who are trying to give teens the kinds of experiences that engage them in serving others in their communities. I appreciate your insights.

  6. Loved this article. This is the exact process my daughter went through! I am so proud of her! This helped me understand how her world was changed by connecting to people in need. Thanks!

  7. Sarah,
    Thanks for your comment here and congratulations on raising a daughter who is an engaged young person! Glad the article helped you understand the steps she went through.

  8. This article is a great reminder to me of the importance of nonjudgemental listening and trust for the young people in my life. Thanks for your great work in clarifying the steps in this important process.

    • Ellen,
      Thanks so much for your kind comment. I’m glad this article was a reminder of how we all impact youth.